I’m a sophomore in college and I feel like I’m failing at the “best years of my life.” My Instagram feed is full of girls at parties, go-to-brunch outfits, and cute couples. Meanwhile, I’m in the library until 10 PM, I’m stressed about my GPA, and I feel like I’m missing out on everything. Is there something wrong with me, or am I the only one not having a blast?
—Library Loneliness
Dear Library,
Social media is a highlight reel, not a documentary. For every “outfit of the day” post, there are ten hours of that same girl sitting in sweatpants, stressing over a chemistry midterm just like you.
February is a notoriously “slumpy” month for students. The novelty of the semester has worn off, and spring break feels miles away. You aren’t failing; you’re investing.
The Move: Try the “Social Media Fast.” Delete the apps for 48 hours and see how your mood changes. Also, find your “study soulmates”—the people in the library who look as tired as you do. Some of the best friendships are formed over shared stress and late-night vending machine runs. You aren’t missing out; you’re building a future.
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